My views on the Dating Scene

Firstly, I would like to start this by sharing with you an old rant I posted across several forums, including sosuave, last July, it shows how disillusioned I was about the dating scene and my chronic lack of success within it. It was also around this time I was beginning to read MRA Blogs regularly and I reckon this was my breaking point that would lead me to taking the MRA writings more seriously and adapting the MGTOW philosophy; ( I’ve fixed some typos )

Firstly, I'm sorry for bringing this up here but I so far in my time here, be able to keep it in check but I JUST CAN'T ANYMORE!

This is more of my rant about my so - called ' love life ' , or should I rather say that its non - existent?

Why is it non - existent? BECAUSE OF FEAR! No matter what I do, no matter how sociable in general I become, no matter how hard I've tried..... FEAR ALWAYS ***ING WINS!

It has made like a stalker, it has made me look like a fool and you know what, I’m sick of it, I made a fool of myself again tonight, I just know I did, walking past a group of girls several times.... ARGH!

Well, it has being a long war in my head BUT in the end, I LOST. FEAR HAS WON THE WAR! FEAR HAS GOTTEN WHAT IT WANTED.

I AM GOING TO DIE ALONE AND CELIBRITE! LOVE DOES NOT ****ING EXIST FOR ME! THERE? IS NOBODY OUT THERE FOR ME!

STOP telling me I'll find someone, STOP telling me how to react.... I ALWAYS OVERTHINK! I JUST CAN'T ****ING HELP IT! I can't change it, no matter how hard I tried! I ALWAYS LOSE OUT TO FEAR!

I accept my fate now, I'm going to lonely because IT IS JUST TOO HARD FOR ME!

So, I GIVE UP COMPELTELY, NOT EVEN GOD CAN HELP ME NOW!

Everywhere I was tonight, I saw girl I liked with all the people who treated me like crap in school. THE JERKS CAN DO IT.... I CAN'T. I AM SICK OF THIS TWISTED GAME, SO I'M QUITING OUT OF IT.

NO FORCE ON EARTH CAN EVEN HOPE TO BREAK MY CURSE, I MOST LIVE IT UNTIL THE DAY I DIE!

I feel like such a failure, even if I get that degree and lots of money, MY RELATIONSHIPS WILL STILL STINK!

I HEREBY DECLARE FEAR THE WINNER, CONGRATULATIONS, MASTER! WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO? OK, I'LL EAT YOUR CRAP BECAUSE I AM YOUR SERVANT!


Please guys, if your a shy type around women, get help for it. I can't be helped now, I'm too old for things to be changed but there is still time for you, just go and do the right thing for yourself, please!

I'm sorry to bring more depressing stuff here but I REALLY needed to get this out of my system, thanks for bearing with me.

As you can see from this, I was quite pissed off at I now know is an unfair and grossly unbalanced dating scene. Here, I want to share my own personal views on the dating, even though, as that post suggests, I’ve being in a total of….. er….. ZERO relationships! And before I start, one thing to any femi - nazis or PUAs who might come my way; FUCK OFF.

Anyways, as you some you can see from my writings here, I’m a very straight forward, nice and honest guy and once upon a time, I was pretty much a mangina, a woman firster, would have being willing to do ANYTHING for a woman. However, as the years pass, I’ve become increasingly angry, harsh and bitter at women, why? I don’t think I need to say it for the sake of those who think Ireland is a safe heaven and will be the last standing ground of men I’m going to.

Do you know how it feels to be humiliated in public? It has happened to me for various reasons, many of them in the name of the trying to get a GF. In my second post last year, I mentioned how my first time approaching a girl didn’t go down so well. In actual fact, it was a disaster, he was me, thrown out into the real world without any help, naive and without a clue, following this girl across the street, while she shouted at me and then THROW FUCKING ICE AT ME! Man, I think guys can be assholes but at least they don’t go about in public like that!

All that most of us in the MRA movement wanted was a happy and fulfilled relationship with a woman, one where we take the role of protector and provider while she takes on the role of carer and nurturer of the both the man, the house and his family. Unfortunately, thanks to femi - nazis like Andrea Dworkin and her equally as vile and evil sisters, this has all but being thrown the window. Women think its ’ empowering ’ and ’ liberating ’ that by ignoring good men and spending their time form adolescence through to 26, 27 as a time for fucking with nice guys heads while at the same time fucking every last piece of fucking scum they found on the side of the road!

Even then, as a used up and rotting skank, she wants to abuse the nice guy even further by conning the poor guy into marrying her and making him her human ATM and if / when she divorces him, he gets taking to the cleaners and DESTROYED while she goes off laughing into the sunset while he lays there in the streets, broken! See, the nice guy never wins, its all one big lose - lose situation of you’re a nice guy, your snubbed, used and made fun of by the girls when you were younger and then when you become stable, get used as walking wallet for them as they slowly rot away, her breasts sagging, her hair getting short and she begins to get FAT.

To be honest, I don’t know why I bother anymore, I’m fighting a rigged battle and I know it. So why do I do it? I don’t know. Maybe its because I’m bitter at seeing my friends all around score while I’m left with only my hand. I’m always told by others that ‘ I’ll find someone ‘ , well guys, to be perfectly and brutally honest, having never even kissed a girl, having gone so long without……. I’m beginning to just accept that fact that in all honesty, there is no one out for me. I mean, that I’ll never know what its like to have a girlfriend, to have sex, to kiss, all that stuff.

Does this depress me? Admittedly, it does. I didn’t ask for this shit, none of us did. As a result of all this whoredom and skankdom that has infected western society, I’m never going to be able to pass on my own fucking bloodline! That being siad, I freely admit that I feel I’m at risk of being ‘ one blow job away from manginaville ‘ because of this. I’m aware of it and don’t want to be that type of person EVER again.

I’m sure most of my MRA comrades, apart from those who got the hell out of the west and married a foreign bride, feel like me at times, that they doomed to only have their hand for company for life because of how fucked up society is and how its falling apart. Firstly, we are armed with the knowledge that it is not our fault, its that of the self - fish Marxists, feminists and NOW crowd who want to create a dull, lifeless and genderless one world society of fucking SLAVES to serve them and the greatest false god of all; MONEY.

You know the dating scene is fucked up if a girl gives you a false name, teases you but when you make a move, she pretends you don’t exist! ‘ Oh, you such a great person, lets just be friends! You know what? FUCK YOU! I did NOT go after you to get that stupid line again. Fuck off and have your fun with that low life sleaze bag friend of my brothers, in fact, fuck everyone else but ME and when your in your 30s, desperate for a sucker and with a biological clock ticking so loud, people think there’s a volcano about to erupt, DON’T COME TO FUCKING ME! You HAD your chance when you were younger and YOU BLEW IT because you wanted to ‘ empowered ’ and ’ liberated ‘ and have fun with your prime years. Well, I think the classic fable ‘ The Ant & The Grasshopper ‘ applies very well here;

In a field one summer's day a Grasshopper was hopping about, chirping and singing to its heart's content. An Ant walked by, grunting as he carried a plump kernel of corn.

"Where are you off to with that heavy thing?" asked the Grasshopper.

Without stopping, the Ant replied, "To our ant hill. This is the third kernel I've delivered today."
"Why not come and sing with me," said the Grasshopper, "instead of working so hard?"

"I am helping to store food for the winter," said the Ant, "and think you should do the same."

"Why bother about winter?" said the Grasshopper; "we have plenty of food right now."

But the Ant went on its way and continued its work.

The weather soon turned cold. All the food lying in the field was covered with a thick white blanket of snow that even the grasshopper could not dig through. Soon the Grasshopper found itself dying of hunger.

He staggered to the ants' hill and saw them handing out corn from the stores they had collected in the summer.

Then the Grasshopper knew:

It is best to prepare for the days of necessity.

By ignoring the good men, the ant in this story and instead squandering your prime years to the bad boys and thugs, your acting like the grasshopper in the story and in case you don’t already know, winter has an awful habit of coming in VERY fast when you not thinking about or keep putting it off. And when you find yourself in a job you hate, bitter and with nothing but a cat to come home to and when you see us good men, living the life of our dreams, the same men you brushed off years earlier, you will then know that you that what you did was wrong but there will NO going back, you made your choice and now you most live with it…. To the end, NO ONE is going to rescue you, not me or anyone!

Until next time,

NHY

Update on some things.....

Before I post my article for today, I'd like to mention that I'm in a crunch period in college t the moment and am very busy and haven't be able to come on as much during the week. I don't want to fail, you know.

Also, in regards to my Jaw operation, which has already caused me enough hassle, the new date set for it is June 11th, unless this nurses industrial dispute here causes it to be canceled AGAIN, in which case I'd very pissed off! Unfortunately, due to the recovery period, which involves getting my mouth wired shut for a month, it means I'm not going to miss out on most of the summer. :( That being said, I'm thinking of exploring deeper the wonders of ROM hacking while I'm recovering, so all is not lost, I guess.

So, thats all really, just letting you lot know why I haven't be posting lately!

NHY

On Politeness

Recently, over on Fred X, I banged on the nail on the head with the following post ( We were talking about how SYG is slowly turning into a mangina central ) ;

I hadn't yet linked to SYG on my blog but after reading, I'll NEVER be linking to SYG on my blog and I encourage others to take down the link from their blogs.

And yes, Fred, I know what you mean when you said being nice is going to get us nowhere, I've noticed my tone is getting harsher on my blog as time goes by.

Being polite doesn't win wars.
Being polite doesn't get you ahead in life.

and so on.

The greatest men in history were anything but polite in their dealings and that’s why they left their mark in history because they had the balls to go after and capture their dreams!

Although Fred X already has an article on this, I feel the need to expand on what I’ve bolded from my comment and gives my views on this issue.

As a nice guy ( or maybe should I say one time nice guy? ) it was in my instinct to be kind and polite to everyone. Needless to say, an awful lot of jackasses abused this fact and made me look like a fool, very often in public as well! Need I mention I was pushed around by pretty much everyone as well? I think the fact girls simply ignored me for scum comes without mention as well!

Needless to say, after all this and the Anon fem - hag that has being posting here the past few days, I’m through with being polite. Being polite never got me anywhere! The only time I ever achieved anything in my life was when my boiler of anger exploded and I become aggressive instead of passive.

I am very fed up and pissed off with being polite and conforming and end up being treated like shit as a result and I’m sure loads of other guys are fed up with being polite as well!

Consider this; Think of all the greatest men in history; I’m talking about the likes of Julius Caesar, Galileo, Michelangelo, George Washington, Patton and so on. ALL of these MEN had one thing in common; They were NOT polite. They had BALLS of steel and almighty courage.

For example, Michelangelo, one of my favorite Renaissance painters, was a jerk, he had ferocious temper. When he was painting the Sistine Chapel, he was so set on it being perfect, he refused help and did it ALL BY HIMSELF. This nearly killed him but he still insisted on doing it his own way. The result; One of the greatest paintings / fresco's in history, made all the more amazing by the fact it was all his own work. What if he was polite, then I doubt that it would have being as amazing.

Galileo? He was laughed at, tried and imprisoned in his home until death for going against the church’s view by suggest the world was round and wasn’t the center of the universe, what if he being polite and conforming, where would we be today?

Patton was one of the greatest military minds of the past century and an true leader. He achieved this by firm but fair with his soldiers, giving them abuse when necessary and such. When he died, such was the respect he had from his soldiers that 20,000 of them volunteered to carry his casket. What if he’d being polite? He wouldn’t have the respect and the Army would have being in serious trouble, like it is today!

I think you get my point; EVERYTHING ever achieved by men were achieved by REFUSING TO BE POLITE. Many people hated their ways, Caesar was assassinated for heaven’s sake! But in the end, their names were written in history as men of courage and RESPECT.

I know what this is like myself. I used to be in the reserves here in Ireland and I did on camp with them back in 2004. It was done over two weeks, the first week, the two Sergeants in charge of us were too polite and laid back for their own good. Heck, one of the Corporals there would have done a far better job!

However, they were only standing in for the proper guy. I heard about him from others who’d done the camp before and admittedly, was a little scared! He was a take no shit type of guy. He didn’t take kindly to poor presentation, sloppy marching and the like. Needless to say, the first day we had him, WE WERE BRUTAL and he made us suffer as a result but boy, in spite of that, after getting over the initial shock, I thought to myself ‘ Holy crap! This guy means business! But god, he has won over my RESPECT because of it! ‘ He was firm but fair, like any REAL Sergeant should be!

Look at what we achieved in the 20th century, we got cars, lighting, electric heating, computers, CDs, etc. Who invented all these? Yes, that’s right, MEN invented them! Men who, in spite of others saying ’ NO ‘ to them, still persisted and ended up winning as a result!

Now, thanks to feminism and the oppression of men, look what’s after happening! Western society, as we know it, is literally at a FUCKING STANDSTILL! We’re stuck in an endless era of going out, getting drunk, working in jobs we hate and so on! Why is all this happening? Because there not enough MEN around, just a load of polite, pussy - whipped, women firster manginas! As result, NOTHING is being achieved, we’re stuck with incompetent leaders, biased laws, a joke of a health system, ridiculous taxes, a disgraceful media. Tyler Durden from Fight Club said it best;

Man, I see in fight club the strongest and smartest men who've ever lived. I see all this potential, and I see squandering. God damn it, an entire generation pumping gas, waiting tables; slaves with white collars. Advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working jobs we hate so we can buy shit we don't need. We're the middle children of history, man. No purpose or place. We have no Great War. No Great Depression. Our Great War's a spiritual war... our Great Depression is our lives. We've all been raised on television to believe that one day we'd all be millionaires, and movie gods, and rock stars. But we won't. And we're slowly learning that fact. And we're very, very pissed off.

See? As a result of all this politeness, all this PC nonsense, we have ALL ( men AND women included ) become nothing more than mindless drones, following the same fucking repetitive pattern over and fucking over, never breaking free from it! They never get the balls to STAND UP and say ‘ Fuck this, I’m going my own way! ‘ Why? Because there are too fucking AFRIAD of offending someone! Of course someone is going to be offended! Like I said earlier, the greatest men in history offended a LOT of people in their lifetimes, did that stop them? HELL NO! They carried on following their hearts and souls! Did they actually give a fuck about these people who complain about their ways? I Doubt it very much.

As for any fem cunts who come on here and try to tell me off and use worn out, illogical shaming tactics, I’ve got two words for you: FUCK OFF!

So, in conclusion, what the world needs right now, is a MAN, a REAL MAN to come along and save it from itself! The world needs someone who does not give a fuck about what others think, refuses to conform and is willing to sacrifice EVERYTHING, even his life, in order to achieve his dream! The world DOES NOT NEED yet another fucking pussy - whipped puppet of the NWO leader, thank you very fucking much.

To all the MEN out there reading this;
The time for being polite has come to an end, got up off your arses and follow your hearts desire and DON’T LET ANYONE tell you other wise!

Until next time,

NHY