Saturday, September 22, 2007


I no longer care.


No, I don’t mean I don’t care about myself, that’s stupid. What I mean is that I longer care about the whole stupid dating game, the hoops a guy ‘ has to ‘ jump through in order to get the girl, the notion you need to be polite to a girl all the fucking time, blah blah blah.

Well, FUCK THAT!

Why jump through hoops? Why be so damned polite to them all the time? Why even play the dating game at all? I do know the game is rigged, the filthy skanks have every cheat in the book and there no consequences for their actions. The poor nice guy who actually follows the ridiculous rules of dating are cast aside as being too boring or as marriage material while the women go off with the scum with flashy cars, who deal drugs and who even abuse her!

What does that tell you women? Maybe they actually WANT to pushed around, maybe they want to be called and their bullshit, maybe they want a guy who ignores the hoops and goes straight for the kill! Back in my nice guy days, I never thought of that but now, in my awakened state, I’m not only aware of it but I accept it for the way it is.

And you what, for the first time in a long time, I feel good. I feel really good about myself. Its like with that hindrance gone, I am free to by my own man. ‘ Its only when we’ve lost everything that we are free to do anything ‘ so Tyler Durden from Fight Club speaks and he is right. For a nice guy, when the pillar of illusion collapses, you are free to live your own life, your own way.

No more of this taking of BS from women. You will begin to call them out on their bullshit and not only will you get away with saying it but other guys WILL agree with you as well.

Man, I’ve changed. When I first came here, I was still hanging on to the threads of an old fantasy. Now that I’ve fallen and gotten back up, I’ve found being on the ground is a hell of a lot better than hanging from a fucking thread! Needless to say, I’ve still got aspects of myself that I need to work on but that’s what men do ( Unless your chained to a femi - nazi wife. If so, go out and get testosterone shots… PLEASE. And watch Fight Club while your at that! ) , we constantly improve ourselves. We are perfect by our imperfections. After all, Perfection is BORING.

Everywhere, everyday. We are bombarded messages from family members, your friends, work colleagues, school and the media about what is the definition of being a man. ‘ Oh, young boy! To be a man you never speak your mind, give up all your desires. Work a job you hate, buy shit you don’t need. Fall in love, get married and work until you die! ‘ That is what I call a FALSE DEFINATION!

Its false because generally most people’s views aren’t really their own. It is given to them, either through the media, through other family members and society in general. They are herd people, living in a complete dream world of perpetual childhood. They don’t realise this and they think they know everything they need to know!

What I want to say is if it the definition of what is a man being told you to by everyone feels wrong. The chances are, it probably is. If want to make the most out of your life, then it is YOU who most come up with your own definition of what a man is. If you spend your life living by someone’s else’s definition, then you will feel hollow, worthless and weak. Is that what you really want from life?

We men are hindered in today’s society. I am well aware of it. But will, that stop men from succeeding against the odds in life? No, it won’t and it shouldn’t for you. The important is to Not listen to what others think is a man, especially women! Sure, your family and friends might have some helpful advice and you shouldn’t ignore altogether but if it is up to own to define yourself otherwise, you will never be comfortable in your own skin.

It doesn’t matter if people turn away from you for being true to yourself. It is THEIR LOSS. Its just a sign of what they are going up as; SHEEP! Your going your own way by refusing to be a part of the herd while they submit to it. Besides, you can always make new and cooler friends, huh?

Life is meant to be lived. You not supposed to just EXIST, your meant to LIVE.

Until Next Time,

NHY

15 comments:

MikeeUSA said...

I made a new cartoon on feminism at http://mikeeusa.blogspot.com .What do you think?

MikeeUSA said...

Check this out:
http://mailman.linuxchix.org/mailman/listinfo/grrls-only

This angers me. LinuxChix is a pro-women's rights, pro-lesbian group that I wish very much would be destroyed. Females contribute very very little to Free/OpenSource software yet they have edged their feminist organisations into the linux world (Also see Debian women : http://lists.debain.org/debian-women )

Is there any way we could hurt them? Does anyone have relatives/friends in law enforcement investigative services? Could they be sic'd on these organizations and these women? (Since we won't do anything against them ourselves).

Your opinion?

Greg said...

Hi NHY,

I am a masculist and have been debating over at youtube. Here is the link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M2F4SlzsqcI

I have requested a few other mras go over and debate and to put some of the mangina/feminist commenters in their place. Look forward to hopefully seeing you over there.

Greg.

Anonymous said...

True. Except the par about women being skanks, not ALL women are skanks. I know loads who are though.
Oh and just to say about the guys being nice, and girls liking mean guys, Im a girl, and I absolutely loath guys who push around girls. However, I think guys who maintain a sorta old fashioned feel to them, like open doors for girls and the like are sweet.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous: All females claim what you claim.

Anonymous said...

Why do people keep spamming here?

Anyway I agree with you I am going my own way in life and I could not care about what others thing about it. I never was one of the "herd" so to speak. I am a loner have been for most of my life. You know what I actually like it if someone says I am weird because In my mind it means I have the balls to do what I want with my life and not life by how someone wants me to.

To Annon - 2:31 AM

You may be a "nice" woman but I see NO reason why any guy should have to open doors for women especially still. This is one of the biggest lies men are told from birth. I believe men and women are equal. How about some women hold the doors open for us guys and put us on a pedestal? Oh wait it would never happen and never has. Also I hardly know any women who like "sweet" guys they are usually the ones who get put in the "friendzone" and get no action from women.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous 10:22,

Is there anything wrong with that?

Anonymous said...

Anonymous 11:47,

I hold doors open for guys, I think any respectful human being opens the door for another.

Just because you say you don't know many girls that don't like sweet guys, doesn't mean there are none.

Anonymous said...

Eh, NHY, don't you think it's about time to stop linking to MikeeUSA? He's clearly a fucking nutcase ala the Malestrom.

MikeeUSA said...

I've started a wordpress weblog after women's rights activists (who I hate) had my blogger site blocked:
http://mikeeusa.wordpress.com/

I put up a new post discussing it.

Anonymous said...

FredX is back!!! horah for fred, i thought id never see the day!!!

Jacqueline McDermott said...

Dear Irishman,

You are so right on so many counts. Men are being forced to feminize, and it is sickening. Do not give up so young. Not all girls are skanks and gold-diggers. Although you see quite a lot of it in the media, especially here in the US.

There are still women out there who value a man for who he is on the inside, and do not care about money or status. They also want a man to be a man, not some creepy cross sex wimp. I do not mean abusive, I mean strong, assured, and confident. Also, you are 21, and many of your female peers- 21 year old girls - usually do not have a coherent thought in their head about what a REAL man is supposed to be like.

As a married gal, I see nothing wrong with being married, albeit I am very respectful and do honor my husband as the head of our family.

Take heart, and be who you really are - without all the anger.

Warmest regards-

Jacqueline

Stephen said...

Here are a few tips for fighting in the gender war. Take a look at my article at:

www.menshouldstopmakingdisclaimers.blogspot.com

You'll be glad you did.

Anonymous said...

is it any wonder you cant get a girlfriend

Stephen said...

What a coincidence. It just so happens I don't want a grrrlfriend. They're way overrated and I have more entertaining ways to waste my time.