Firstly, I would like to start this by sharing with you an old rant I posted across several forums, including sosuave, last July, it shows how disillusioned I was about the dating scene and my chronic lack of success within it. It was also around this time I was beginning to read MRA Blogs regularly and I reckon this was my breaking point that would lead me to taking the MRA writings more seriously and adapting the MGTOW philosophy; ( I’ve fixed some typos )
Firstly, I'm sorry for bringing this up here but I so far in my time here, be able to keep it in check but I JUST CAN'T ANYMORE!
This is more of my rant about my so - called ' love life ' , or should I rather say that its non - existent?
Why is it non - existent? BECAUSE OF FEAR! No matter what I do, no matter how sociable in general I become, no matter how hard I've tried..... FEAR ALWAYS ***ING WINS!
It has made like a stalker, it has made me look like a fool and you know what, I’m sick of it, I made a fool of myself again tonight, I just know I did, walking past a group of girls several times.... ARGH!
Well, it has being a long war in my head BUT in the end, I LOST. FEAR HAS WON THE WAR! FEAR HAS GOTTEN WHAT IT WANTED.
I AM GOING TO DIE ALONE AND CELIBRITE! LOVE DOES NOT ****ING EXIST FOR ME! THERE? IS NOBODY OUT THERE FOR ME!
STOP telling me I'll find someone, STOP telling me how to react.... I ALWAYS OVERTHINK! I JUST CAN'T ****ING HELP IT! I can't change it, no matter how hard I tried! I ALWAYS LOSE OUT TO FEAR!
I accept my fate now, I'm going to lonely because IT IS JUST TOO HARD FOR ME!
So, I GIVE UP COMPELTELY, NOT EVEN GOD CAN HELP ME NOW!
Everywhere I was tonight, I saw girl I liked with all the people who treated me like crap in school. THE JERKS CAN DO IT.... I CAN'T. I AM SICK OF THIS TWISTED GAME, SO I'M QUITING OUT OF IT.
NO FORCE ON EARTH CAN EVEN HOPE TO BREAK MY CURSE, I MOST LIVE IT UNTIL THE DAY I DIE!
I feel like such a failure, even if I get that degree and lots of money, MY RELATIONSHIPS WILL STILL STINK!
I HEREBY DECLARE FEAR THE WINNER, CONGRATULATIONS, MASTER! WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO? OK, I'LL EAT YOUR CRAP BECAUSE I AM YOUR SERVANT!
Please guys, if your a shy type around women, get help for it. I can't be helped now, I'm too old for things to be changed but there is still time for you, just go and do the right thing for yourself, please!
I'm sorry to bring more depressing stuff here but I REALLY needed to get this out of my system, thanks for bearing with me.
As you can see from this, I was quite pissed off at I now know is an unfair and grossly unbalanced dating scene. Here, I want to share my own personal views on the dating, even though, as that post suggests, I’ve being in a total of….. er….. ZERO relationships! And before I start, one thing to any femi - nazis or PUAs who might come my way; FUCK OFF.
Anyways, as you some you can see from my writings here, I’m a very straight forward, nice and honest guy and once upon a time, I was pretty much a mangina, a woman firster, would have being willing to do ANYTHING for a woman. However, as the years pass, I’ve become increasingly angry, harsh and bitter at women, why? I don’t think I need to say it for the sake of those who think Ireland is a safe heaven and will be the last standing ground of men I’m going to.
Do you know how it feels to be humiliated in public? It has happened to me for various reasons, many of them in the name of the trying to get a GF. In my second post last year, I mentioned how my first time approaching a girl didn’t go down so well. In actual fact, it was a disaster, he was me, thrown out into the real world without any help, naive and without a clue, following this girl across the street, while she shouted at me and then THROW FUCKING ICE AT ME! Man, I think guys can be assholes but at least they don’t go about in public like that!
All that most of us in the MRA movement wanted was a happy and fulfilled relationship with a woman, one where we take the role of protector and provider while she takes on the role of carer and nurturer of the both the man, the house and his family. Unfortunately, thanks to femi - nazis like Andrea Dworkin and her equally as vile and evil sisters, this has all but being thrown the window. Women think its ’ empowering ’ and ’ liberating ’ that by ignoring good men and spending their time form adolescence through to 26, 27 as a time for fucking with nice guys heads while at the same time fucking every last piece of fucking scum they found on the side of the road!
Even then, as a used up and rotting skank, she wants to abuse the nice guy even further by conning the poor guy into marrying her and making him her human ATM and if / when she divorces him, he gets taking to the cleaners and DESTROYED while she goes off laughing into the sunset while he lays there in the streets, broken! See, the nice guy never wins, its all one big lose - lose situation of you’re a nice guy, your snubbed, used and made fun of by the girls when you were younger and then when you become stable, get used as walking wallet for them as they slowly rot away, her breasts sagging, her hair getting short and she begins to get FAT.
To be honest, I don’t know why I bother anymore, I’m fighting a rigged battle and I know it. So why do I do it? I don’t know. Maybe its because I’m bitter at seeing my friends all around score while I’m left with only my hand. I’m always told by others that ‘ I’ll find someone ‘ , well guys, to be perfectly and brutally honest, having never even kissed a girl, having gone so long without……. I’m beginning to just accept that fact that in all honesty, there is no one out for me. I mean, that I’ll never know what its like to have a girlfriend, to have sex, to kiss, all that stuff.
Does this depress me? Admittedly, it does. I didn’t ask for this shit, none of us did. As a result of all this whoredom and skankdom that has infected western society, I’m never going to be able to pass on my own fucking bloodline! That being siad, I freely admit that I feel I’m at risk of being ‘ one blow job away from manginaville ‘ because of this. I’m aware of it and don’t want to be that type of person EVER again.
I’m sure most of my MRA comrades, apart from those who got the hell out of the west and married a foreign bride, feel like me at times, that they doomed to only have their hand for company for life because of how fucked up society is and how its falling apart. Firstly, we are armed with the knowledge that it is not our fault, its that of the self - fish Marxists, feminists and NOW crowd who want to create a dull, lifeless and genderless one world society of fucking SLAVES to serve them and the greatest false god of all; MONEY.
You know the dating scene is fucked up if a girl gives you a false name, teases you but when you make a move, she pretends you don’t exist! ‘ Oh, you such a great person, lets just be friends! You know what? FUCK YOU! I did NOT go after you to get that stupid line again. Fuck off and have your fun with that low life sleaze bag friend of my brothers, in fact, fuck everyone else but ME and when your in your 30s, desperate for a sucker and with a biological clock ticking so loud, people think there’s a volcano about to erupt, DON’T COME TO FUCKING ME! You HAD your chance when you were younger and YOU BLEW IT because you wanted to ‘ empowered ’ and ’ liberated ‘ and have fun with your prime years. Well, I think the classic fable ‘ The Ant & The Grasshopper ‘ applies very well here;
In a field one summer's day a Grasshopper was hopping about, chirping and singing to its heart's content. An Ant walked by, grunting as he carried a plump kernel of corn.
"Where are you off to with that heavy thing?" asked the Grasshopper.
Without stopping, the Ant replied, "To our ant hill. This is the third kernel I've delivered today." "Why not come and sing with me," said the Grasshopper, "instead of working so hard?"
"I am helping to store food for the winter," said the Ant, "and think you should do the same."
"Why bother about winter?" said the Grasshopper; "we have plenty of food right now." But the Ant went on its way and continued its work.
The weather soon turned cold. All the food lying in the field was covered with a thick white blanket of snow that even the grasshopper could not dig through. Soon the Grasshopper found itself dying of hunger.
He staggered to the ants' hill and saw them handing out corn from the stores they had collected in the summer.
Then the Grasshopper knew:
It is best to prepare for the days of necessity.
By ignoring the good men, the ant in this story and instead squandering your prime years to the bad boys and thugs, your acting like the grasshopper in the story and in case you don’t already know, winter has an awful habit of coming in VERY fast when you not thinking about or keep putting it off. And when you find yourself in a job you hate, bitter and with nothing but a cat to come home to and when you see us good men, living the life of our dreams, the same men you brushed off years earlier, you will then know that you that what you did was wrong but there will NO going back, you made your choice and now you most live with it…. To the end, NO ONE is going to rescue you, not me or anyone!
Before I post my article for today, I'd like to mention that I'm in a crunch period in college t the moment and am very busy and haven't be able to come on as much during the week. I don't want to fail, you know.
Also, in regards to my Jaw operation, which has already caused me enough hassle, the new date set for it is June 11th, unless this nurses industrial dispute here causes it to be canceled AGAIN, in which case I'd very pissed off! Unfortunately, due to the recovery period, which involves getting my mouth wired shut for a month, it means I'm not going to miss out on most of the summer. :( That being said, I'm thinking of exploring deeper the wonders of ROM hacking while I'm recovering, so all is not lost, I guess.
So, thats all really, just letting you lot know why I haven't be posting lately!
Recently, over on Fred X, I banged on the nail on the head with the following post ( We were talking about how SYG is slowly turning into a mangina central ) ;
I hadn't yet linked to SYG on my blog but after reading, I'll NEVER be linking to SYG on my blog and I encourage others to take down the link from their blogs.
And yes, Fred, I know what you mean when you said being nice is going to get us nowhere, I've noticed my tone is getting harsher on my blog as time goes by.
Being polite doesn't win wars. Being polite doesn't get you ahead in life.
and so on.
The greatest men in history were anything but polite in their dealings and that’s why they left their mark in history because they had the balls to go after and capture their dreams!
Although Fred X already has an article on this, I feel the need to expand on what I’ve bolded from my comment and gives my views on this issue.
As a nice guy ( or maybe should I say one time nice guy? ) it was in my instinct to be kind and polite to everyone. Needless to say, an awful lot of jackasses abused this fact and made me look like a fool, very often in public as well! Need I mention I was pushed around by pretty much everyone as well? I think the fact girls simply ignored me for scum comes without mention as well!
Needless to say, after all this and the Anon fem - hag that has being posting here the past few days, I’m through with being polite. Being polite never got me anywhere! The only time I ever achieved anything in my life was when my boiler of anger exploded and I become aggressive instead of passive.
I am very fed up and pissed off with being polite and conforming and end up being treated like shit as a result and I’m sure loads of other guys are fed up with being polite as well!
Consider this; Think of all the greatest men in history; I’m talking about the likes of Julius Caesar, Galileo, Michelangelo, George Washington, Patton and so on. ALL of these MEN had one thing in common; They were NOT polite. They had BALLS of steel and almighty courage.
For example, Michelangelo, one of my favorite Renaissance painters, was a jerk, he had ferocious temper. When he was painting the Sistine Chapel, he was so set on it being perfect, he refused help and did it ALL BY HIMSELF. This nearly killed him but he still insisted on doing it his own way. The result; One of the greatest paintings / fresco's in history, made all the more amazing by the fact it was all his own work. What if he was polite, then I doubt that it would have being as amazing.
Galileo? He was laughed at, tried and imprisoned in his home until death for going against the church’s view by suggest the world was round and wasn’t the center of the universe, what if he being polite and conforming, where would we be today?
Patton was one of the greatest military minds of the past century and an true leader. He achieved this by firm but fair with his soldiers, giving them abuse when necessary and such. When he died, such was the respect he had from his soldiers that 20,000 of them volunteered to carry his casket. What if he’d being polite? He wouldn’t have the respect and the Army would have being in serious trouble, like it is today!
I think you get my point; EVERYTHING ever achieved by men were achieved by REFUSING TO BE POLITE. Many people hated their ways, Caesar was assassinated for heaven’s sake! But in the end, their names were written in history as men of courage and RESPECT.
I know what this is like myself. I used to be in the reserves here in Ireland and I did on camp with them back in 2004. It was done over two weeks, the first week, the two Sergeants in charge of us were too polite and laid back for their own good. Heck, one of the Corporals there would have done a far better job!
However, they were only standing in for the proper guy. I heard about him from others who’d done the camp before and admittedly, was a little scared! He was a take no shit type of guy. He didn’t take kindly to poor presentation, sloppy marching and the like. Needless to say, the first day we had him, WE WERE BRUTAL and he made us suffer as a result but boy, in spite of that, after getting over the initial shock, I thought to myself ‘ Holy crap! This guy means business! But god, he has won over my RESPECT because of it! ‘ He was firm but fair, like any REAL Sergeant should be!
Look at what we achieved in the 20th century, we got cars, lighting, electric heating, computers, CDs, etc. Who invented all these? Yes, that’s right, MEN invented them! Men who, in spite of others saying ’ NO ‘ to them, still persisted and ended up winning as a result!
Now, thanks to feminism and the oppression of men, look what’s after happening! Western society, as we know it, is literally at a FUCKING STANDSTILL! We’re stuck in an endless era of going out, getting drunk, working in jobs we hate and so on! Why is all this happening? Because there not enough MEN around, just a load of polite, pussy - whipped, women firster manginas! As result, NOTHING is being achieved, we’re stuck with incompetent leaders, biased laws, a joke of a health system, ridiculous taxes, a disgraceful media. Tyler Durden from Fight Club said it best;
Man, I see in fight club the strongest and smartest men who've ever lived. I see all this potential, and I see squandering. God damn it, an entire generation pumping gas, waiting tables; slaves with white collars. Advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working jobs we hate so we can buy shit we don't need. We're the middle children of history, man. No purpose or place. We have no Great War. No Great Depression. Our Great War's a spiritual war... our Great Depression is our lives. We've all been raised on television to believe that one day we'd all be millionaires, and movie gods, and rock stars. But we won't. And we're slowly learning that fact. And we're very, very pissed off.
See? As a result of all this politeness, all this PC nonsense, we have ALL ( men AND women included ) become nothing more than mindless drones, following the same fucking repetitive pattern over and fucking over, never breaking free from it! They never get the balls to STAND UP and say ‘ Fuck this, I’m going my own way! ‘ Why? Because there are too fucking AFRIAD of offending someone! Of course someone is going to be offended! Like I said earlier, the greatest men in history offended a LOT of people in their lifetimes, did that stop them? HELL NO! They carried on following their hearts and souls! Did they actually give a fuck about these people who complain about their ways? I Doubt it very much.
As for any fem cunts who come on here and try to tell me off and use worn out, illogical shaming tactics, I’ve got two words for you: FUCK OFF!
So, in conclusion, what the world needs right now, is a MAN, a REAL MAN to come along and save it from itself! The world needs someone who does not give a fuck about what others think, refuses to conform and is willing to sacrifice EVERYTHING, even his life, in order to achieve his dream! The world DOES NOT NEED yet another fucking pussy - whipped puppet of the NWO leader, thank you very fucking much.
To all the MEN out there reading this; The time for being polite has come to an end, got up off your arses and follow your hearts desire and DON’T LET ANYONE tell you other wise!
Due to some rather nasty comments from an Anonymous woman on the blog recently, I feel to the need to make this post in order to make some things VERY clear.
The first comment;
Your description of women as 'spoilt brats' says some very interesting things about you. Firstly, it indicates that you don't view women as adults, but rather children, who are incapable of providing for themselves and demand too much of their men. What rubbish. As a 20 year old you should be fully aware that most women are self-sufficient. Secondly, your view of women in only a negative light makes you a misogynist, thus your blog should have the much catchier title 'An Irish Misogynist.' It's cowardly to align yourself AGAINST a movement rather than openly admit your odious view of women. Furthermore, you really should have more respect for Irish women. As a twenty-something example of one, I am nothing like the women you moan about here, nor is any woman I know.
Look, woman, while I'll admit much of the material I read is from either the US or UK, that doesn't automatically mean that similar BS doesn't happen in Ireland or thats its just ' an American problem! ' That is a load of nonsense designed to cover women’s tracks. As for V - Day, I can't exactly remember seeing too many V - Day ads targeted at MEN only, I saw and heard several ads that are targeted towards women though but thats not my point here.
Secondly, contrary to what you think, I do not hate women. If I did, then this blog would have a LOT more hateful content and my fellow MRA's would disown me. In fact, I have several female friends in college and at home. I get along with women just fine. However, what I do have a problem is how feminism and modern society in general, has allowed women to get away with murder and how its now men, good men, that are being discriminated against!
Next comment;
You know what's hilarious? These women that have STDs didn't somehow incubate them inside their bodies: they caught them from some nasty man they had sex with. Yes, that's right - 'sex with' - it takes two to tango. For the record, I'm a sexually-responsible Irish woman with a boyfriend who has always been free of STDS. Your dismissal of all women is dangerous and needs to be corrected.
I know they didn't incubate them inside their bodies and I know its takes two to tango but like I said in the post this comment came from; Bebo / Myspace is not the place to talk about such things! Also, I noticed you used the term ' nasty man ' to describe the guys they got the STDs from and you call me a Misogynist!?
Look, another reason I'm here in the first place is because I have seen, with my own two eyes on countless occasions, girls my age going out with absolute SCUM, I'm talking about the type of men who are likely to abuse them and treat them like crap. These guys are also don't go anyway in life and they can't see beyond the present and the quick thrills that come with it. Meanwhile, the good men, the ones who'd actually treat her well, are left to ROT. I'm one of those guys left to rot.
Because of feminism, the dating scene has become a sick, twisted and overly complicated game in which in order to succeed, you'd need to sell your soul to the devil! Err.... no fucking thanks! I want to keep my soul, thank you very much!
Also, lady, I smell a whiff of shaming tactics in both comments in a weak attempt to get to me. That might have worked on me when I was 15 but it simply WILL NOT work on me today so fuck off with the shaming language!
Have I made myself clear, Lady? Or are you just going to send more worn out shaming tactics my way?
I'm just dropping a quick message letting everyone know that I'm going to busy for a while, I have 3 projects on the go in college at the moment and various other things that will keep me busy so don't except so many posts from me here for a while.
I've being too lazy and now I'm worried I might fail SO I'll be busy trying to keep my marks up and such. Don't worry I'll be back soon... or whenever I see / hear / read / experince something Femi - Naziish that pisses me off and I'll be needing to write about it.
I'm getting a Jaw Operation as part of Orthodontist treatment done on me on Monday, March 5th. For that purpose, I've created a new blog which will deal with my experiences and anxieties.
For obvious reasons, I want any comments on that blog to be neutral, so I will reject any comments that link me to my MRA activities here or anywhere.
Just thought I'd let everyone know.
Edit: The Operation is tomorrow. I'm a bit nervous right now as you could guess. Wish me luck!
Edit 2: Ever hear of Murphy's Law ' Whatever can go wrong, will ' ? Well, I've just had such luck. I developed a cold over the weekend and due to the fact its kinda dangerous to go under in such a condition, it has resulted in the operation for today, at the last minute, being canceled! The professor made the call, I guess he's really only looking out for my overall health ( even though my father didn't see that way, he thought it was time wasting as he was told he could go away ), kinda knew this would happen after I got that info slip with my appointment date on it. What is going to happen now is that I'm going to start drinking a hell of lot of orange juice between now and the rescheduled appointment.
Kinda sucks though, I was psyched for this and all and then THIS happens! If I get sick at the same time of my next appointment for surgery, I think a visit to my GP will be in order to figure why the hell my immune system is so crap!
Ah well, at least I enjoyed that bag of chips I got for lunch. :D
Valentine’s Day is looming upon us once again or should I say ‘ Spoilt Brat’s Day? ‘ ( because most modern day women don’t even deserve having the word ‘ princess ‘ in that title, it rightly should be ‘ Spoilt BRAT syndrome! ‘ ) is upon us.
Simple, it’s a day where almost everyone ( not just women, men do it too ) act is if they all so in looovvveeee…. Yeah right, its more like another day where the guy is expected to splash on his spoilt brat in return for….. er…… a CHANCE of having sex? I siad a CHANCE, not a GUARENTEE of having sex!
It’s a vile excuse for shops to jack up prices for cards, chocolates, flowers and other useless female jewelery crud? Why the cheesy bad ‘ Roses are red, violets are blue… ‘ poetry? How about this for a valentine’s poem instead?
Roses are red Violets are blue You’ll have them all over When I beat the hell out of you!
Of course, I don’t condone violence, hatred or violence against women ( I’m no Martha. In fact, I just thought up that poem on the spot and mean it as an Anti V – Day Joke ) what I’m trying to say is that if you don’t like what the world around you does, there is NO NEED TO BUY INTO!
Valentine’s Day exists in modern culture solely for the benefit of women and women alone, you hardly, if EVER, see ANYTHING where Valentine’s Day benefits the man, usually, you only see the guy go through a lot of pain and trouble for their spoilt brat in order to please so that he either doesn’t get dumped ( and it doesn’t really matter, maybe she’s planning to dump his ass next day, anyway? )
So, my message to all my fellow single comrades out there, who enlightened and know the truth behind Valentine’s Day and chose to boycot it, like I am. All I offer is an alternative idea for V – Day. I shall call it Singles Day!
As for myself, I’ll be busy with college and if I do happen to get time, I might just buy one of those boxes of V – Day chocolates and scroff the lot MYSELF!
A while back, I posted one of the speech's from Rocky Balboa, one that has had an impact on a lot of people, including me. After thinking about it, there is also a ANOTHER such speech from earlier in the film, when Rocky is applying for his boxing license, that also leaves a similar effect and made me clap as well.
So... I felt like I owe it to myself and everyone else ( well, almost everyone *caugh*fatmammycat*caugh* ) to post the other scene here for the sake of completion.
NHY again calls all whiny feminists and manginas to watch this. Yes, you lot again, take note!
Once again, Rocky rings true. NO ONE has the right to stop you from doing with you love and going after what you want. If they are, then they have ulterior motives, dismiss them! For if you don't follow what makes you happy, then you are doomed to a life of sadness and unfulfillment!
If you want to be happy in life, YOU must be the one who makes the rules, NO ONE ELSE! Forget what your family and friends say, they may have done a fine job of raising and shaping you but you are not them. Don't listen to what people in authority say, as long as you stay in line and go your own way, you'll be fine and COMPLETELY DISREGARD what the media says, for its the biggest propaganda machine of all, you need not emulate the latest craze and fads, you only need be YOURSELF.
FORMER New York mayor Rudolph W Giuliani and New York Sen Hillary Rodham Clinton, who briefly competed against each other in a Senate race in 2000, look set for their biggest re-match yet.
Political observers believe Mr Giuliani, twice divorced and moderate on many social issues, will have a tough struggle in the primaries, where conservative voters tend to dominate. But there is no candidate as popular as the former mayor.
Leaving the NWO talk aside for now, I for one feel that Mr Giuliani would make a VERY fitting opponent for Hillary in the US presidential elections next year. I'm not American but that still doesn't stop me ( and most other MRAs as well ) from being concerned about the potential disastrous after effects worldwide if Hillary was to be elected as president! Besides, it also looks as if the guy has experience of divorce court as well to boot!
There is plenty of evidence out there to support what my views as well. Sadly, most people I know would call me sexist around here if I spoke against her ( and trust me, I did once to no avail ) ah well, it seems like we have so way to go yet.
Last night when I was on Men's Chat Network, I complained about sudden chest pains and a faster heartbeat. I also have being sneezing all night up until this point.
Don't worry, I'm fine. It just turned to be part of a really bad cold I've gotten. ( Don't worry, its not the bird flu either, I've heard about that though. )
I just thought I'd clear that up in case anyone from MCN is concerned about my health.
Its being a while coming but it was inevitable, some Femi - nazi who thinks she knows it all has tried to use shaming tactics on me! The results were hilarious.
ahahahahhahah, stupid cunt, imagine using a film as a code for life... Neo? PLease, you know he is fiction right? Same as Rocky? Great, another stupid fearful fuck wit who blames women for his failings. Grow up kid, maybe you won't be such a wanker then.
Firstly, that didn't even work, all it did was make me LAUGH. Also, guys, you won't believe this but her username on blogger is....... fatmammycat!
Anyways, on to MY thoughts about the comment;
Of course I know they are fiction but they are a mirror of to life, so to speak. In the case of Neo, he is awoken from the matrix or to put into way, he sees the world for what it is, that it is all ONE BIG LIE. At first, he doesn't like what he sees but as we all should know where he ends up by the end of the first film.
As for Rocky, well, Rocky is a reflection of many of us in real life, getting hit HARD by life and seems to be living in the past, however, that didn't stop him from moving forward and opening up his own restaurant. Sly said that when he wrote Rocky Balboa, the Rocky character also reflects his mis - fortunes he has had himself in the past few years, which makes him all the more human.
What about all the other great works of fiction, are you trying to say that they are all irrelevant to life because they are fictional? Well, lets see. Shakespeare's Hamlet, about a person whose, personality isn't suited to dark deeds, like revenge, is burden with doing such a task and the whole play is about how this affects him. Can't you see? That are MANY people like Hamlet, burdened with tasks that don't suit them, be it a job they hate, a femi - nazi for a wife, all lead to the collapse of that person's character.... and soul.
Finally, I DO NOT blame women for my failings, in fact, in my eyes, I'm anything BUT a failure! Stop telling me to ' grow up ' , I've get enough of that from mis - guided family members! I guess your idea of a guy ' growing up ' involves them working in a soul - destroying job for 60 - 80 hours+ a week, they come to a nagging wife who then proceeds to spend the guys money on stupid stuff and drag them even further in debt! Sorry but No Thank You!
Heh, I feel sorry for the cats of Ireland with people like you around!
I went to see Rocky Balboa on Friday, very good film, if you ask me. Its good to see such an inspirational film at a time where it seems to be out of fashion! However, there is one key scene where Rocky is speaking to his son that is worth noting.
NHY calls all whiny feminists and manginas to watch this. Yes, you lot, take note!
This is good to see, it seems as if the world is finally waking up to the fact that feminism is BAD NEWS. ( couple this with Borat a few months back and how he made a mockery of a group of Feminists in less than a minute as well, its going good so far ) The feminists forget that it is MEN who built society to the way it is today! Without us, we'd still be in caves and whatnot! If this discrimination of men continues, I can see a new Dark Age come where the masses are uneducated and ruled by a few big guys with an iron fist.
Its the last thing anybody wants but thats what we're being led to! The problem is that most people are BLIND to it! They are not people, they are SHEEPLE! They refuse to see how big brother is watching, how invasive laws are taking away our freedoms and how ' nanny states ' have left once mighty countries like America and the UK a freaking DISASTER AREA!
Some of those who do wise up who not be able to see a way out of it all. Some of them turn to drink drugs or even suicide to escape it all! They have being brainwashed all their lives to see that ' The Way ' ( get educated, get a job, make money, fall in love, get married, buy a house, etc, etc. ) is the only way and that any other way is wrong! That your not being ' a man ' by not following ' The Way ' , let me tell you this, it is the BIGGEST LIE ever sold!
I was there once, a bit like Neo when he first learned the truth, confused and lost. I took of a lot of hits psychologically, something that nearly caused me to crack. Then one day, when at was at its darkest; I finally said ' screw this! ' and confronted the nightmare. Throwing facts is a mighty weapon! After that, I realized, for the first time, that I didn't need to follow this path that I could do things my way and hence, its why I'm here today.
Those who support ' The Way ' are women, big business, corporations, governments, etc. Who ALL want one thing; the biggest false god of all; MONEY. Ignore them, my friends and if they persist, just throw facts at them! :D
Remember, life isn't about how hard you can hit but how hard you can get hit and keep on moving! Keep on moving and NEVER give up, for that, you WILL reap the rewards at the end, I assure you on this.
This site deals with current world events from a rather admittedly pessimistic end times / second - coming - is - upon - us prospective. That being said there are some interesting ideas here that might be worth checking out, especially for those who want to keep their general spiritual health in check.
You are more than welcome to discuss this, however, any arguments over religious beliefs here WILL NOT BE TOLERATED!
I was out tonight, well, I always go out every Saturday, same time, same place, a local bar in town. Its my thing I do at time of weekend, depending on the crowd, I either stay late or leave early. I have seen a lot of skanks around, I'll admit, a lot. You should have seen the place on ' Little Women's Christmas ' last week, It was DISGUSTING!However, a chain of events tonight occurred and its after ticking me off.
You see, one of my many little posses I have thought it might have being funny to try and convince to me to chat up a certain girl in the group and telling me to sit on her lap as it was her birthday. My instinct told me that they were lying because she wasn't exactly in a celebratory mood! I was later to proving right as later, when I was hanging around the group and one of the lads was REALLY trying too hard to convince us and then she shouted at me to ' FUCK OFF FOR A MINUTE! ' Needless to say, I was a little shocked and insulted and to tell you the truth, had this happened back in my nice guy days, I would have being broken by it! ( Side note; I don't even like this girl too much. I kept on asking ' WHY? ' when the lads insisted on me doing this crap! )
Turns out that she had split up with her boyfriend earlier today and she was not in a good mood and pushed by others and me indirectly, she took it out on me! I was cool with it but I think I'm going to hold a bit of a grudge against said girl from now on! ( As well as placing her into my DUMP category ) My instincts were right, I was being made a fool out of! Had I ignored my instincts, I'm pretty damn sure I would have gotten a lot more than a verbal bashing! Years of being victim to these bad jokes have me weary and I'm sure I've missed legitimate opportunities as well but what the hey, if I want to find a girl, I'll do it myself, thank you!
I'm aware many other guys may have being treated in a similar manner to this, either by their girlfriends, mother's, wives, friends or even people they don't know! Listen guys, don't take to heart, they seem to have nothing better to do than worry about their so - called ' problems ' and then take out their frustrations on YOU, either verbally or even physically! Guys, remember this, if your a MAN, you do not need to or rightly should put up with that crap! If I were you, I'd give her marching orders at once! I'm aware that some married / long term relationship guys are worried about divorce and being screwed over by it but remember this; she may take your money, your assets, your children and even your life but she can NEVER, EVER take your soul! He who has a soul is already rich beyond his wildest dreams!
We all have problems, each and every one of us ( I've being quite public about mine ) BUT just because something crap has happened to you recently doesn't mean when someone is fooling around that you have to snap at an innocent bystander! Its a little thing called CONTROL. I know its probably hard to do but it can save time, friendships, money and even lives.
So, the moral of this story is; Always trust your instincts and you will NEVER go wrong!
Hey everyone, Happy Belated New Year! I hope everyone enjoyed New Years Eve! I know I did, with the help of... ahem.... some shots! :p
Into 2007 we go then. The year of the seven, its a lucky number, you know. Maybe this could just be the year that feminism and all the lies that it represents, is finally blown open to the public! Many mainstream sources are starting to say ' Oh my god! What the hell have we done!!??? '
Maybe it could because the powers that be, the owners of all the large cooperations, ( mostly MEN, remember, lets stay out of the whole area of NWO here ) realise that maybe they too are in danger of being screwed by over by the VERY society they've helped create! I think the whole Paul McCartney / Heather Mills thing has gotten them alarmed, they could be next and rightly, they now want to be rid of it!
I'm quietly optimistic about 2007. For one, I can say that the nice guy in me is now DEAD. There was no longer any place for him, so he passed away. I'm now more hardass, a real good guy. I still play the dating game, yes I do but now I play it by MY rules! Why CARE?
As many other blogs have noted, there has indeed being an explosion of MRA / MGTOW related blogs on the internet but it is still in its infancy, the REAL battle hasn't even started yet! The early adopters, like Pook's Mill, MRA Revolutionary, Captain Zarmband, Mirror of the Soul and the likes will be looked up to.
I hope to post more personal observations, more examples of Irish Femi - Culture and the likes. I also wish to touch on the NWO and all the things that surround it but alas, that is all to come... in 2007.
While this blog hasn't being updated in a while, I still strongly urge EVERYONE, especially those who are new to the concept of MTGOW, to go and read ALL of his previous posts. The guy does a truly fantastic job at explaining how to free yourself from the Fematrix.
I steam from sosuave.com, where his posts there have legendary status, especially his legendary ' Secret of the Jerk ' post there. I can personally remember being utterly gob - smacked by his posts on the site. While Mirror for the Soul was my first exposure to a MGTOW blog, it was Pook's Mill that was the blog that first had a major impact on me, exposing the lies of feminism to me, influenced me to become a part of the MGTOW movement and ultimately, start this very blog.
Pook also isn't your usual MRA, which I'm admittedly guilty of being. This guy doesn't agree with the idea that ' society is going to collapse! ' ' The world is ending ' or all that other doomsday crap. Instead, he encourages an optimistic and hopeful outlook for the world.
I can't explain this myself so I recommend you to go off and get reading!
Today, I'm going to share with what I've learned in the past 6 months, ever since I became active in the growing MRA movement on the Internet. I'm going to share with you more personal experiences from when I was younger and what I now know in hindsight and other observations. Come with me, reader, as we go down the weary road and explore!
1. Family Alcoholism
As you might know, In my introductory post a few months back, I mentioned that my family is infected with something as bad as Feminism; Alcoholism. What I've learned has made me realize that my family unit has being corrupted by Feminism as well! Yikes! Alcoholism + Feminism = A definite recipe for disaster!
My mother is a controlling bitch. I'm making no mistake about this. She is constantly giving out about how ' mess up the house ' and is obsessed with cleaning it! I'd go downstairs from my room to go to the toilet and when I come back up, shes after tiding the bed again! Its literally ALL she does! She has no hobbies whatsoever! She also wants to keep my father on lease, not letting him out at all... unless shes with him.
Hmmmmm..... I can now see why he is always sneaking out to the pub and whatnot and why the idea of him going out on his own is so alien and a sign of imminent danger for me! ' Why? ' You might ask. Well, I'm usually at home and my mother is usually asleep when this happens and to try and stop him because its so alien to me is too dangerous! Of course, the mother usually wakes and who gets blamed? Thats right, ME! Is it little wonder I got so depressed when I was younger, my ego was constantly attacked like this, even though there really was nothing I could do. She used to make look in all the pubs in town for him! How embarrassing! Either that or she would go after him... only to come home drunk herself! It left me on my own in the house to look after my sister, no wonder I missed out on so much and don't invite people over, I'm afraid of getting ashamed by their behavior! She also insist I go and get her vodka because ' her nerves are shattered ' FUCK THAT!! YOU DO NOT SOLVE AN ALCOHOLIC PROBLEM WITH MORE FUCKING ALCOHOL!
In more recent times, I've obviously gotten *REALLY* sick of this crap and gotten really angry and starting to get tough and ask tough questions. However, she then uses shaming tactics on me! She would who she had it so bad when she was younger and how I've had ' a lovely life ' compared! If thats the case, how come she never talks about this when she's sober and / or with a consular? What she probably is really saying is ' I have no life, your father must have none either and so and going nuts with drink like this at least once every month and screwing you over is our way of escaping it and can't stop is! Our actions are just, even if it is wrong and hurtful to others. ' That tactic only worked once on me, the 2nd time she did it, red flags popped up all over me head! MY GOD, I feel sick, my own mother, using SHAMING TACTICS ON ME!
2. School
Leaving that aside, there was also another woman who abused her power over me, one of my old class teachers / class coordinators. When I was in second year, I was going through a rough phase in my life, my ego shattered from my families alcoholism, my brother starting to home drunk AND constant rejections from girls. I wasn't doing much schoolwork as I just didn't care as I felt NO ONE cared about me. Did she try and find out the route of the cause and help me? NO SIR! Instead, she just threw abuse at me, calling me lazy. Heck, even took me out of class once to throw yet MORE abuse like this at me and even called home! How the hell did she fail to see that there was something else wrong with me? Thank god for my maths teacher, HE was probably one of the few who saw that there was indeed something else wrong and wasn't doing this on purpose for no apparent reason. Even my old class mates say she picked on me, that how bad it was!
Why did she do that? The real reason, I'll never know. I can only guess that the power as class coordinator went to her head and she picked me out of the group because I was different, not just that, I was also in state of vulnerability! Maybe she just didn't see that there was something else wrong with me.
On the topic on school, the Irish state exams system is often regarded as one of the best in the world. Why? Most subjects still rely on one ' make or break ' state exam ( Some don't and have modules or project work beforehand ) which requires actual STUDY for such exams! As you know, males prefer that system. That being said, I think there are too, trying to change it to make it more modern! ( or maybe more biased towards girls? Uh oh ) Ireland also has the same problem with regards to teacher, they are mostly female ( however, they most come from proper teaching courses, not some ' womens studies ' course! ) and yes, guys can be more unruly in such classes from personal experience!
What have I learned? To oppose any such changes to the Irish state exams system! OK, I won't mind them doing some papers a few weeks before the rest of the exams ( I did Higher Level English and was in was the exam hall for 6 HOURS in one day doing both papers, not including the one hour break in between, I thought I was going to die afterwards! ) but if they try to modularize it and make the final exam not matter so much, then I'll be one who'll be opposing it!
3. The Datrix.... I mean dating scene.
Moving onto the dating scene, now, I'm well aware that Ireland isn't America ( maybe its a cheap clone? :) ) but some things are the same here as in America and the UK. For starters, I once again state I've lost count on how many times I've seen some of the most attractive women going with what can be best described as absolute scum! I'm talking about real low – lifes here! That guy was right, people who are kind, intelligent and educated ( like me ) are forced to grow up alone with only Miss Rosy Palm and her five friends for comfort while the ladies squander their prime years with the bad boys, thugs and players!
These women then go around and show how ' empowered ' they are by dressing up in skimpy clothes when they go out and used their body to manipulate others guys into looking at them so that they can either call them perverts for looking Or they'll use these suckers to ensure they free drink for the night! Then they'll end up drunk and falling all over the place or sleeping on the pavement! ' Yipe..... I'm sloooo..... emcowermeed! Hiccup! '
I have grand total of ZERO experiences in the dating scene because I DON'T like being a fake! In fact, I'm came here from sosuave.com, a well known men oriented dating advice site. Someone posted a link on its forums to Pook's Mill and the rest, as they say, is history! The problem with that site it that it encourages that you forsake your real self for the sake of a quick lay! ( Although I don't encourage the doormat ' AFC ' personality type either ) I tried to do that and well, it didn't work for me in the long run, it was.... too fake for me. DO NOT forsake your soul for a quick lay!
4. Marriage
Marriage, once sacred and for life, has all but being distorted in todays society. It has become a womans way out of work to life of doing nothing, not even cooking, while the guy goes our and nearly works to death and never sees his family, who she is ' empowered ' to leave at a play center while she joins other mothers and goes drinking! ( That part is dead true, not for all women, I hope! ) Either that or shes has an affair and the guy finds out and files for divorce.....
..... only to have himself taking to the cleaners by the female biased divorce courts! ( I'm not so sure about it here in Ireland but some info on the AMEN Ireland site implies a similar situation ) He'll be striped off nearly ALL his assets, his family and then he'll have to pay child support, which goes into the womans pocket anyways! He'll probably end up homeless as well to boot but she doesn't care at all!
Once upon a time, I wanted to get married but now, with the threat of these laws coming to Ireland and whatnot, I've decided to join the marriage strike as well!
So, there you have have it, what it, what I've learned over the past 6 months, join me next time in another 6 months when I go the weary road once again!
Bit early for Christmas, huh? Ah well, it close enough for me!
To be quite honest, I feel more like a Scrooge right now than a St Nick, Christmas isn't exactly my favorite time of the year, namely because of annoying family and the HUGE sense of boredom that looms on the day itself! Lovely!
I really don't mean to bitter, I honestly don't but with all that I've realized over the past few months, whats the point in celebrating? Christmas is just another boring day for me and many others. All it is a glorified excuse for excess in eating and drinking ( OK, I'll admit I'll be going for the excess eating bit but I have my reasons for not drinking. ) , an increase in binge drinking and hospitals and cop stations all over the world being packed with drunken fools or worse still.... what about those who end up in the graveyard? Scary thought, I know.
People have forgotten, in the midst of all the chaos of Christmas shopping and the rush that surrounds it, the REAL meaning of Christmas; Its a time for giving. Christmas is NOT a competition where ' he who gives the most expensive present wins! ', that is not the meaning of Christmas at all, what ever happened to the idea that its the thought that counts?
You must remember, that originally, Christmas was a time of penance and peace brought about by the birth of Christ in the Nativity. What does all this excess have to do with the birth of Christ? I even wrote ( and read out loud in class ) an essay about the corruption of Christmas in English once when I was in secondary school! Maybe my old geography teacher was right when he said that Christmas, as we know it, will be gone in 50 years time!
And whats all this nonsense about Christmas being banned because it ' might offend other religious groups? ' What a load of NWO BS! You DO NOT go around persecuting the majority for the sake of the minority! I think this article from save the males will sum that up!
But in all in all, even if I'm being a bit of a scrooge in my personal experience this year, I still nevertheless want to wish all my readers and all members of the Men's Chat Network a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
And finally, heres a bit of Christmas humour, courtesy of good ol youtube
